EXPOSED: This Age-Long African Tradition Allows Fathers To Compete With Their Babies For Breast Milk

Butere is a town in Kakamega County in Kenya. Since time immemorial, the town with over 4,000 people has been practising a rather obscure custom that would have never come to the limelight had health officials not raised concern.

The custom sees men competing with newborns for breast milk. As such, mothers feed their babies with one breast and leave the other for their husbands, local media Nairobi News reports.

The practice has left newborns malnourished as they are unable to get the right amount of breastmilk, health officials have said.

Under the practice, newborns are not allowed to suck the breast reserved for their fathers.

For the men in the town, the custom has nothing to do with breast milk, but it is rather a way of preventing their wives and children from being cursed. Others said they suck their wives’ breast to ensure the romance remains even after childbirth.

But health officials are worried about the consequences on children and thus, in 2014, Butere sub-county public health officer Mr Oliver Walutila started a campaign to end the custom in the area.

That is yet to achieve the desired result as according to a 57-year-old father of five, the age-old custom is still being passed to the younger generation.

Dr Donald Musi, who is in charge of Yatta Plateau medical centre believes curiosity is driving men in the town to continue with the tradition.

“I think there is just a lot of curiosity in men. They want to find out what it tastes like… husband breastfeeding can be as much about curiosity than utility,” said Dr Musi.

A section of women in the village support the custom and deny assertions by doctors that it leads to poor health of newborns.

But, 82 year-old Mzee Waziri Mohammed cautions against men breastfeeding on the breasts of their wives.

“When a man sucks the breast of his wife who is lactating, the child should not breastfeed on the same breast. This child will die. Our Luhya cultural practices don’t allow this,” says Mzee Waziri.

He added: “It sounds like a man sharing the private parts of his wife with their baby. This baby is destined to get doomed.”

Also commenting on the practice, a 57 years and a father of five said the custom is longstanding and elders have always ensured it is passed to the younger generation.

Great caution is taken to ensure the newborn does not suckle the breast reserved for its father.

“The mother must be very keen because if the baby suckles the breast reserved for its father then it will die and it will be a curse to that family,” he explained.