S*x can be very boring if you don’t shake things up.
There may be some things you have been doing that are making your partner get bored with the sex you have.
To know what those mistakes may be, scroll down and make sure to work on them before your partner completely loses interest.
1. You focus only on intercourse
Many couples make this mistake and end up destroying their own sex life. Concentrating only on “the end” and not on the process of sex can easily be boring for anyone. It is important to touch and explore each other’s bodies and involve emotion.
2. Comparison
Never, ever compare your spouse with an ex as this just increases insecurities and then there is resentment. Even if you do this in anger, you are ruining not just your sex life but your life together in the end.
3. Not letting the other rest
If your spouse is stressed and instead of asking about their well-being you ask if sex is possible, this will agitate the other and you will simply add to them resenting you and especially sex. A stressed person will always run away from sex. Make sure both have a clear schedule, and some time for sex and that will help reverse sex boredom.
4. Not learning anything new
If you are being rigid, practicing the same positions every time and using the same technique like a routine, it is obvious that your partner will get bored of the sex. There are several ways to spice up things between you including sex toys available easily in India. Also, introduce role play to your sex lives, No one needs to know except you both!
5. No Intimacy
During sex, it is very important to keep eye contact with your partner while penetrating. Don’t just do it because there is no pleasure in that unless it is a quickie. Kissing a little, touching & grabbing each other, all very important.
