Veteran Nollywood actor, Saint Obi, in an interview with New Telegraph, has said that people should not be in a haste to judge a feuding couple.
According to him, what works for a particular couple, might not work for another, people should not expect perfection from every couple.
Talking about the rampant reports on domestic violence, the actor said that although, violence should not be supported
by anyone, some people push their limits.
In his words:
“Firstly, I must say that violence is not good. But sometimes, when it comes to issues about crashed marriages and stuffs like that,
what I always say is that don’t be too quick to judge, because until you get married, I know you are, you won’t understand the
dynamics that operate in homes.
“What works for Mr ‘A’ or Miss ‘A’ may not work for Mr ‘B’ and Miss ‘B’. So, things lead to things; but my advice is that rather than
become violent, maybe you walk away or maybe give each other some space.
“Sometimes some artistes push the other to the extreme, I say sometimes, not always. So,
it is just the ability for one to understand when he is being pushed overboard, and
control that urge to go overboard because some people can be terrible, and some people can be nice.
“So, I will never advise anybody to be violent no matter the situation; but some people push people to the extreme.”