Infidelity is one of the most challenging problems faced in a relationship. While many people are blindsided if and when they find out about a spouse or partner cheating, others may suspect it because of actions that are out of the norm.
Behavior changes, curious actions, and odd occurrences can certainly indicate that a partner is having an affair. That said, it’s important to remember that is not always the case.
When there is infidelity in a relationship, it causes disconnection and because you may feel that something is amiss, that you can’t put your finger on, you may find yourself agitated with a feeling of free-floating anxiety.
In most cases, even when you confront your partner with accusations of cheating, it will be denied. Unless you have hard evidence or irrefutable proof, many will not admit to infidelity.
Here are ways to know if your spouse is cheating:
Changes in Your Sex Life:
Your sex life is practically non-existent, there are lots of new things introduced in sex that were never before. You learn that you have an STD and you have not strayed.
Sudden Change in Habits:
Your partner may change his or her habits for a variety of reasons. And healthy habit changes are usually a positive thing. But certain habit changes may be cause for concern
The words “I love you” are not spoken by your spouse any longer. You can’t even get your mate to fight with you.You can’t get your spouse to communicate with you (stonewalling).
LYING AND AVOIDANCE:
These avoidance strategies may indicate that your spouse may be cheating. You feel as if you are being avoided.He/she doesn’t want to go anywhere or do anything with you anymore.
Indifference:
When your spouse shows apathy or lack of interest in things that they used to love, communicate with them to see if there is another reason for the change in engagement. But if you also suspect infidelity these changes may be further indication of an affair.
Money Issues:
You notice charges on credit card statements that don’t make sense. Money becomes more of an issue between the two of you and your spouse stops planning for large purchases (such as a trip, buying a house, starting a renovation, etc.)
